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The worst kind of person to have in your life is a toxic person. The very definition of a toxic person is someone who brings out the absolute worst in you, ... ; Skiptocontent Searchfor: Home11CharacteristicsThatDefineaToxicPerson PersonalGrowth 11CharacteristicsThatDefineaToxicPerson 10monthsagoReadTime:4minutesbyRebecca Facebook Twitter Pinterest Theworstkindofpersontohaveinyourlifeisatoxicperson.Theverydefinitionofatoxicpersonissomeonewhobringsouttheabsoluteworstinyou,whetherit’safriendship,relationship,orevenafamilymember. Nobodyshouldhavetoenduresomeonewhodrainsthelifeoutoftheminsteadoffillingthemup. However,wecan’talwayschoosethepeoplewhoenterourlives,butwehaveasayinwhostaysafterward.Inthisarticle,we’llbetalkingabouteverythingyouneedtoknowabouttoxicpersontraits. Whatisatoxicperson? Oneofthesignsofatoxicpersonissomeonewhoisbothmanipulativeandabusive.Ifyouhaven’theardthetermgaslighting,it’softenusedintoxicfriendshipsandrelationshipswheresomeonemakesyouquestionyourownsanityandbasicallyeverythingyou’veeverknow. Forinstance,youaren’tokaywithsomethingandyouopenthisup,thattoxicpersonwillmakeitseemlikeit’syourfaultforfeelingthisway.Thisisjustoneofthemanywaysthatatoxicpersoncanbreakanddestroyyourlifeinseveralaspects. Atoxicpersonalsoaddspurenegativityanddramatoyourlifeandyoualwaysfeeldrainedwheneveryou’rearoundthem.Mostimportantly,atoxicpersonwillmanipulateyousothateverythingturnsintheirfavor,andnotyours. Theywillcontrolyouuntilyoufeelsosuffocatedthatyoufindithardtowalkawayfromthatrelationshiporrelationship.Toxicpeoplecan’tdealwiththefactthattheycan’tcontrolyou. 11CharacteristicsThatDefineaToxicPerson #1Theyalwaysblameyouforeverythingwrong Inanykindofrelationship,youshouldneverbecompletelyblamingsomeoneelseforeverythingthatgoeswronginyourlife.Youhaveapartialfaultinthatscenario,butsodothey.Atoxicpersonissomeonewhoholdsyouaccountableforeveryfaultinascenarioandtheworstpartis,youbelievethemtoo. #2Theyneveradmittheirmistakes Nomatterwhathappens,theyneveradmitthattheywerewrongandtheyneverapologizeforanyofit.Intherarecircumstancestheyapologize,itwastomakeyoufeelbadandtogainsomethingfromyou.Inreality,atoxicpersonnevermeanstheirapologysincerely. #3Theydisregardyourboundaries Boundariesareasignofbothrespectandlovesowhensomeonedisrespectsyourboundariesrepeatedly,thatisn’tsomeoneyouwanttokeeparound.Iftheyknowyouaren’tcomfortablewithsomethingandyettheypushyoutodoit,that’sanautomaticredflag. #4Theyaredishonest Whileeveryonetellswhitelieseverynowandthen,atoxicpersonwillmakeahabitoutoflyingtoyoustraightinyourface.Youdon’tneedsomeonedishonestbecausetrust,love,andrespectareallinterconnectedandtrustistheveryfoundationofanyrelationship. #5Theyplaythevictim Thisisoneofthedefiningfactorsofwhatmakessomeonetoxicinyourlife.Evenifit’stheirfault,they  willneverbeaccountablefortheiractionsbutinstead,they’llplaythevictiminthestorysothatyouendupfeelingbadfortheminstead.That’swhatatoxicpersoncandoinyourlife. #6Theyinvalidateyourfeelings Whileyourfeelingsandthoughtsaren’talwaysvalid,yourpartnerorfriendshouldmakeyoufeelheardandunderstoodevenjustalittlebit.Whentheymakeyoufeelyourfeelingsdon’tmatterbuttheirsdoes,thisisahugeredflag. #7Theydon’tlistentoyou Youknowsomeoneistoxicwhentheyonlycareabouttheirneedsaboveyours.Anyrelationshiporfriendshipisaboutthatmutualunderstandingthatyougetfromthem. #8Theyareharshtowardsothers Whensomeoneiskindtowardsyoubutisharshtowardsothers,theyaren’tshowingtheirgenuineselvestowardsyou.Infact,theymaybemaskingtheirrealpersonalityforyoursake.Thisisbothtoxicandmanipulative,especiallytowardsthereceivingendoftheirbehavior. #9Theymakeyouquestionyoursanity Sincetheydon’tmakeyoufeelappreciatedorunderstood,theymakeyouquestioneverythingregardingyoursanity.Youstarttofeellikeyou’relosingyourselfinthatfriendshiporrelationship. #10Theyareinconsistent Inconsistentpeoplearebadforyourmentalhealth,especiallywhenthey’reyourromanticpartner.Oneminutethey’reintoyouandthenext,theydon’twantanythingtodowithyou. #11Theyareselfish Ifyou’rehappy,thenitmeanstheyshouldrainoveryourparadeandcan’tletthespotlightbeonyou,notevenforjustasecond.Toxicindividualsarethemostselfishandarrogantpeopleyou’llevermeet,thinkingthattheworldrevolvesonjustthem. TraitsofaToxicPerson Theydraineveryounceofyourenergyandeffortwithoutgivingbackanythinginreturn. Theybringoutyourworst Theycontrolandmanipulateyouintotheirfavorofthings Theyaren’tgoodforyourmentalhealth Theygaslightyouintentionally Theyleaveatraceoftraumaandabusethatyoucan’tcomebackfrom Theyareselfish,narcissistic,andarrogant Theyonlypretendtocareaboutyoutoearnyourtrust Theycan’tstandtheideaofyoubeingbetterthanthem Theyinvalidateyourfeelingsandemotions FinalThoughts Ihopethisarticlewasabletoshedinsightintoeverythingyouneededtoknowabouttoxicpeople.It’seasytospotatoxicpersonaslongasyouknowhowtospotredflagswhenyouseethem.Ifyouthinksomeoneistoxic,cutthemoffasearlyasyoucanbeforetheygaincontroloveryouandyoucannolongerwalkaway. Toxicpeopledrainandexhaustyouandnomatterhowbadyoufeel,youshouldn’thavetotoleratethem.Youdeservesomuchmorethantoxicityandtohavethattraumaandmanipulationinyourlife. 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